Parents Who Spank Being Made Criminals

I have to agree Joe. You have lived in a strange environment for too long long if you associate spanking with sexual feelings. You might need/want to move out of California before it's too late.

As for your link: fearmongering trash. Sorry, I can't give it a better characterization. You need to find better things to read.

 

Here is my post again- Read it closely

For those who took liberties to do other than scroll down to the expert quotes and news stories that's fine. I referred you all to expert quotes and NEWS Stories only

Sadly, we all know as parents we are placing our kids in possible danger by creating a scinereo where they could be sexually exploited through violence when we allow strangers in a school system this power.

Some people must have some misbehaving kids they just can't control. Sad to hear this.

You may want to disable your internet filter and google spanking or paddling. My friend did it for me, he is always willing.... pages and pages of porn websites regarding BDSM and spanking comes up. He said paddling is the #1 method so I suggest you all use a switch (rod?) from a tree in spankings. They would sell those if they were desirable.

These are paid porn websites. If people aren't into this stuff, paying good money, then it wouldn't be there. I doubt an adult just woke up one day with this obsession. They were conditioned for years as kids into this perversion of being spanked, or it could have been one event.

READ THE NEWS STORIES

There is no denying this is a huge problem caused by parents.

I am not against spanking, did it a few times when my son was a toddler, he doesn't remember it. I am not against violence either. But you can't find a bible verse which backs up ungodly strangers spanking your kids while you aren't present. So don't call this sickness Biblical.

Clearly, spanking doesn't belong in school. If your child is so unruly he can't be decent in school, you have much to look into. There is PLENTY as a parent you can do, and should do, before resorting to violence upon their bodies inflicted by strangers who may get off on it.
Eat healthy, exercise, eat organic, consume no drugs (limit meat with drugs-hormones/antbitics) then kids are less hyperactive. Get to the root of the problem.
Be an example. Exercise and teach your child to do the same.
Our son is very into health and runs three days a week. Works out with weights. I don't worry about drugs or alcohol, he doesn't want any thing to do with it. Grades are all A's and one B last time. His friends are good kids. And he can't recall being spanked.
Go figure...


BE WHOLESOME. Teach wholesome values.

Sorry but even as Foster Parents, we always got a grasp upon our kids behavior. By law, we can't spank them. Once our foster child was kicked out of school and we homeschooled him, (no choice) but 3 months later, he returned to school with great behavior ever since (he went back to mom, that helped ALOT) We still see them. He was allergic to some foods, causing hyperactivity.
Imo, he would have freaked if we allowed a stranger to touch him in that manner (he was molested) He was a very modest kid, as all kids should be, breaking down that sense of modestly would have been inexcusable. Breaking down any child's sense of modesty has consequences. I hope you all don't spank your kids then complain too much when you see a female dressed skantly, as Daddy probably played a major part in taking away her innocence (sense of modesty)

 

As I stated before, I hope you don't believe such idiocy, Joe.

 

Why in the world would a person who claims to be of God tell people to turn off their internet filters and go to porn sites?

Joe, I'll pray for you.

 

That's funny :smilewinkgrin: I agree, we should move. Maybe to Alabama. I remember the Miss USA pagents years ago, looking forward to Miss Alabama's accent.
Actually, if it's like that motion picture Sweet Home Alabama with Reese Whitherspoon, I don't think I would fit in :laugh:

You read the whole link, but not the portion I directed you to regarding the topic of this thread? The News Stories of spankings in schools? One is from one of our somewhat local papers (Sacramento Bee). We can buy it locally. We learned this stuff in Foster Parent classes, so it's truth. Studies were cited to back this up in class.

fearmongering trash? Interesting...ever heard of that monkey, see no evil, hear no evil?

 

There is no expert better than the Word of God.

Sadly, many believe and follow the secular newspapers advice before they will believe and follow the Bible.

 

Perzactly why evolution has such a grasp on otherwise sane folks!

Also, no matter the topic, there is some secular source that will contradict the Word with a "study" or "poll" proving(?) their view-point!

If "IT" does not match the Scripture, better stay away from it; plain & simple, with no looking back!

 

There were elements of truth in that movie! :laugh: Many elements of truth!

 

That's a very generous characterization. I thought it was worse than that.

 

Please don't promote how you enjoyed the abuse so much you "laughed" during it because it wasn't severe enough. I am glad a defense mechanism kicked in but that is all it was.

"Light you up?" interesting. Hope you don't do that or say such things to your own kids.

My son, and other foster kids whom we took care of were not spanked. And I have to say, their behavior was not as close to being as out of control as yours was as a child. I was told off, but never laughed at. Sounds like there are or were some deep problems there.
Again, we spanked our son as a Toddler but he had health issues we didn't know about so when they were cleared up, his behavior became much better. I felt bad, the spankings were not warranted. My fault, my sin against him.

We're back to someone "lighting you up" Yes, I can see the sarcasm in your post. So much for making your case here.The manner you are speaking with me now is not a way we relate in our household.

Before becoming a Christian, I didn't live in a cave so I do know some things as truth due to personal experience. Females can surprise you
About 17 years ago I took a few psychology classes in College and do not remember this as being S. Freuds work, though I do remember his work somewhat.

 

Frued was very hung up on sex. Remember "oral fixation, etc."

I'm raising a young man who can handle life. It's not always fair. There will be time when a boss, a D.I., etc. gets in his face. And, most kids today, because their parents have bought into a false value system, aren't able to handle life when they grow up.